Every person has the potential to be a Hero. Few choose to be a Hero to themselves first. You cannot love others until you love yourself. Once we can accept who we are and how we appear and love ourselves, we can then love others. It is easier to love ourselves when we realize God created us and loves each of us. When we start loving others because God loved us first, it is easier to be a good person who has solutions to problems, rather than a serial complainer and ungrateful person. Gratitude is the first step in living a life with purpose.